07 January 2025
Ah, January – the glitter of the holidays has faded, and you, magnificent unicorn, are left staring at a mountain of wrapping paper, stray ornaments, and that pile of gifts you swear you’ll put away later. Sound familiar? You’re not alone! For neurodivergent women like us, the post-holiday chaos can feel like a perfect storm of overwhelm. But don’t worry – we’re here to conquer this mess and set the stage for a sparkly, magical 2025!
Let’s dive into a step-by-step journey to tackle post-holiday clutter. Keep it playful, keep it manageable, and above all, keep it kind to yourself.
Before we pick up a single bauble or box, take a deep breath. You are a unicorn, a rare and wondrous being who deserves a home that feels as magical as you are. The goal isn’t perfection; it’s progress. A little sparkle every day adds up to a whole constellation.
Why are you tackling this clutter? Is it to create space for new memories? To reclaim your mental energy? To finally find your favourite mug without a treasure hunt? Write it down, whisper it to yourself, or shout it in the mirror. Keep this purpose close as your guiding light when the process feels tough.
Clutter can be overwhelming when you see it all at once. Instead of tackling the whole mountain, sprinkle some glitter on the process by breaking it into smaller steps. ADHD brains thrive on manageable tasks, so let’s divide and conquer:
1. The Holiday Haul Sort:
Gather everything holiday-related in one spot.
Sort into three piles: Keep, Donate, and Recycle. Be ruthless but kind. Does that blinking Rudolph truly bring you joy? If not, thank it for its service and let it go.
2. The Gift Zone:
Create a home for your gifts. Whether it’s a new gadget, a cosy scarf, or a book, find a place where it belongs. If you’re not sure where it fits, give yourself permission to set it aside temporarily in a “decision box.” You can revisit this when your mind feels clearer.
3. The Leftovers Sweep:
Trash, recycling, and odd bits (looking at you, single gift tag) need homes, too. Do a quick sweep and bin what doesn’t serve you.
Decluttering doesn’t have to be dull! Turn on your favourite playlist or audiobook. Dance between tasks. Give yourself rewards for every little victory. Maybe a hot chocolate for clearing the tree, or a five-minute break to stretch, breathe, or enjoy your favourite cosy chair after sorting the gift pile. Little dopamine boosts can keep your ADHD brain engaged and happy.
Unicorns are social creatures. If you’re feeling stuck, call in reinforcements! A trusted friend, partner, or even a fellow ADHD unicorn can help you stay on track. Sometimes, just having someone to chat with while you sort makes all the difference.
Once the holiday-specific clutter is under control, take a moment to bask in your accomplishment. (Seriously, pause and celebrate. You’ve earned it!) Then, look around. Are there other areas that could use a sprinkle of magic?
Here’s a quick win: Pick a high-traffic area, like your entryway or kitchen counter, and give it some love. Clearing one small spot can ripple positivity throughout your space.
Post-holiday overwhelm doesn’t just come from the physical clutter. It can also stem from mental to-do lists and emotional exhaustion. Make self-care a priority:
Hydrate: Keep your favourite unicorn mug full of water or tea.
Rest: Schedule downtime to recharge. (Yes, schedule it! ADHD brains love a good plan.)
Reflect: Journal about your wins, big and small. Did you tackle the gift pile today? Amazing! Write it down. Celebrate yourself.
Decluttering isn’t just about creating a tidy space; it’s about setting the stage for the life you want. As you put away holiday remnants, think about what kind of home and life you’re creating for yourself in 2025. What habits can you build now to make next year’s post-holiday cleanup even easier?
Ideas for 2025:
Start a “Holiday Bin” to store all your seasonal decorations in one place.
Keep a small “Regifting Box” for items that didn’t quite fit but could delight someone else.
Declutter as you go next year, so January feels lighter.
Lovely unicorn, you’re not just decluttering a house; you’re decluttering your mind, freeing up space for joy, creativity, and those incredible dreams of yours. Tackling post-holiday clutter is a step toward a brighter, better life—one where your home reflects the amazing, unstoppable person you are.
Remember, it’s not about getting everything perfect. It’s about showing up for yourself, even when it’s hard. You’re creating a future that’s worthy of your magic. Keep pushing, keep shining, and most importantly, keep believing in yourself.
Your magical, decluttered life awaits. Let’s go make it happen!
Let me know in the comments, and let’s cheer each other on! We’re in this together, unicorn to unicorn. 🦄